What is considered cheating?

kabloooie • 3 days ago

In your own opinion of course, I'm intrigued to hear your own perspective and not textbook answers of how the world should be this or that.

In the nature of this forum, the context is already formed, about swinging. But, feel free to contextualise your opinion as you share; frame in privacy secrecy loyalty whatever.

I figured I post something that might get people talking. It's a little bit quiet in here and hopefully this might spark a short conversation. The world is a wonderful place with interesting minds that we'll never have the lifetime to meet all. I thought I probably get something out first, before the membership thing restricts whatever things to post.

Perhaps I just share my own view first.
Monogamy, if you understand it entirely as including life experiences and not just a 2 person relationship, is non-existent in this era now; it probably was during our grandparents or before.
I have the belief that life is indeed too short to be copulating exclusively with just one person, and I take sport fucking as it is, like an exercise activity.

Please, I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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Magia • 3 days ago

In my opinion, it's not considered cheating if they don't know about it! Kidding aside, I think it's more of whether someone feels like they have to hide what they are doing. Cheating is less about sex and more about breaking or having the lack of trust with your partner. 🤔

BerryCherry • about 3 hours ago

Welcome to The Undertable! We hope you enjoy it and we're looking forward to having you as a premium member.

As for our opinion. In the context of a swinging lifestyle, cheating is the breaking of trust. Everything should be done with consent and transparency :)

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